Dating with a kid

Have any of you dated someone after having a baby? If so how did that turn out? How long were you together before moving in, married, have another baby, etc? Or did none of that happen? I started dating my boyfriend while I was pregnant and he doesn't want to move in anytime soon. And I don't know how long I can date someone before making the next step. May will make one year. Next may will be 2 years and I don't want to sit around for him to 'consider' us moving in together. I want a family and I don't want to be 30 when I get the chance to settle down. My boyfriend is constantly changing his mind about what he wants. I know what I want and that will never change. I want to fall asleep and wake up everyday with my best friend and the person I love most. I want a baby of our own within a couple years. Maybe it's just me and I'm looking WAY into it but I can't help it. You dated me when I was pregnant and you've been by my side through a lot. At the same time I'm tempted to just say fuck it and go on with my life. I need to go back to school and just be on my own. Lately I've just had a ton of doubts and I've been over-thinking everything!!! He says one thing and I find a reason to look into it. Sometimes I feel as if I could care less what happens but other times I feel like I just want the next step. Maybe it's just me being crazy but I can't help it. And on top of that my ex and his psycho girlfriend got engaged so now I feel super shitty because I have a HUGE feeling they'll get married on MY date (11/11/11). If they do all hell will break loose lol. Donny won't marry me on that day but I know someone who will and wants to have a baby soon and have us be together. And that's another thing.. that's been in the back of my head for months! It's hard to sit here and wonder what's going to happen when there's someone who wants the same things as me and I've pushed it off for 4 years. Who knows... I'll figure it out with time or I'll have a professional help me out lol. Maybe I need to just pour my heart out to a psychologist about everything in my life. I hate that thought though because I cry whenever I have to talk about things in my life, I'd much rather sit here and type them out and not cry. :-)